Living our preferred lives is not mainly about the outcome of achieving our goals, it’s about the journey, not the destination. Focusing so much on the outcome distracts us from the present moment, where our power and blessings are. The outcome then becomes a measure of our worth, rather than an expression of it. Our goals are there to reflect we are more than all our accomplishments, they are not to define us. Accomplishments are meant to show us glimpses of what we can do,

Living our preferred lives does not mean we are always in a forward or upward momentum, sometimes we fall back or fall behind. We sometimes lose the initial motivation, possibly due to some setbacks or disappointments. Do not lose faith, this too is part of our journey. A journey towards a goal we are passionate about without any major disappointments may mean we are still at the beginning or we are not really living our preferred lives, but playing it safe or living someone

Unconditional Love will require of us at times to be vulnerable when we don’t trust, to be honest with ourselves when a little white lie may make us look good or allow us to escape being embarrassed, to speak the truth when it may cause pain to those we care about, to surrender when logic says to hold on tighter, to be accountable when no one else is–no matter the consequences; if not done privately, then it will done in public. Unconditional loving will challenge us to revea